1. Why do we as single ladies feel we must pimp ourselves out in order to get and/or keep a man? 
2. Why do we accept less than what we want just to have a man?  (Settling)
3. Why do you accept flirting from men when they’re with their woman, and think she’s dumb for letting it happen? 
4. Why do we lie about the status of our relationship in order to save face? 
5. Who told you it was a crime to be single? 
6. Who told you it is okay to accept cheating, as long as he’s taking care of home? 
7. Why do you stay so long without any promise of marriage? 
8. Why do you think he loves you, just because you’re having sex on a regular? 
9. Why are we having sex before marriage?
10. Why do you think its okay to sleep with someone else’s husband? 
11. Why do you think you’re the one who’s going to change him?   
12. Why do you want him to have everything on point, and you don’t?
13. Why do we think we’re not worth more?
14. Why do we think all men are dogs, and think we’re going to attract a good one?
15. Why do we think, “How did she get a man, and I don’t have one?”
16. Why are we so afraid to be alone?
17. Why don’t we accept we could be the reason we’re single?
18. Why is it so hard to move on from bad relationships?
19. Why don’t we make ourselves available?
20. Why does being single make us desperate?

-Terry D.