I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and never let you forget you’re a man! Because I’m a WOMAN! You remember the Enjoli commercial
I hear so many women say what they wouldn’t do just because a man says he likes it. i.e. haircut, certain color lipstick. Well, now maybe that’s why you may not have a man, or can’t keep one. What’s so wrong with wanting to look good for your significant other? Instead, because it makes us feel like we’re being weak, we do the complete opposite. That’s where we completely throw out the notion of compromise. We always say that men aren’t as complicated as us, and to me the simple things are an easy fix. Don’t be afraid to put in the extra work and effort.
“My wife only wears makeup when I’m around because she knows I like it.” -Jerry T. He also said that it makes him want to give her the world, because she cares enough to do something she wouldn’t normally do.
YOU KNOW HOW THERE ARE FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS? BE A SPOUSE WITH BENEFITS!
I had a conversation with a friend, and she shared some of the things that her husband expressed that he liked about her, and she made it happen. She said,
“I certainly don’t do it for me, but I noticed the difference in his reaction to me, when I started doing some of the things he said he likes.” Anonymous
When we wanted to get them, we pulled out all the stops, but then we just STOP! Where/how does that make sense? When I used to tell my boyfriend that I liked his cologne, he was giddy, and when I saw him, he would have that cologne on. He knew how to dress, but considered my feelings enough to ask me what color suit he should wear, or what color tie. These are the things that keep us interested and excited about one another. There is nothing wrong with submitting to your husband/wife. Stop trying to prove a point, because it will get you no where, but back to a single status real fast. When someone knows that you not only value their opinion, but you’re willing to go out of your way to oblige them, the possibilities are endless.
Why do we insist on making things harder than they have to be? I’m sorry, but some things are just not rocket science, and I don’t want to go through life upset and disgruntled. We complain about so many things in our relationships, and when you have simple solutions, why not just do it! The truth is, we do those little things for him, but just don’t want him to know that. Why play games? Let him know that you value his opinion…
2 thoughts on “Are You a Wife with Benefits?”
This article raises several interesting points. There’s nothing better than to be able to put a smile on your significant others face because you did something that they appreciate. For me, someone once said “I’m happy that you listen to me”. This article ties it together for me. Men feel heard when we take the time to honor their requests, no matter how small. Great read Terry D.
Thank you so much, and thanks for sharing. You are absolutely right. It doesn’t matter how small.