Repairing Relationships between US (Black Girls)
Often things are said out of frustration, or without all of the information, but not always with malice. Do we take the time to repair, or do we just judge and remove ourselves? Monique was mature enough to go to the source, not spew hatred and spread rumors and allow things to snowball out of control, but to express her disdain and allow healing and restoration.
Consider the one time that you may have said something you didn’t mean, or allowed something that was not meant to be slander, but was taken out of context.
I can completely identify, because I recently had a friendship to almost end. Not because of anything that was said, but because of our lack of communication. I thought more of my friendship than I did of my pride. No one is perfect – not even you… USE YOUR WORDS – I’m sorry! I was wrong! Thank you! Forgive me! I understand! I forgive you! Healing starts with you.
Mo’Nique recently stopped by “The Real” and had an emotional reconciliation with co-host Loni Love. The Almost Christmas actress opened up about a misunderstanding the two had and how they eventually got past it in a healthy and mature way. “The reason Loni and I had to hold onto each other for minute is because we could have experienced a horrible…