Joy and Pain


Our first experience with love starts at a very early age. It shapes our belief in it, or it makes us question everything about it. Our thoughts about love are being formed well before we even understand what true love really is. Our loved ones that mold our thoughts are not aware that they’re creating a generation of curses or blessings.

As we begin to experience love for ourselves, it usually starts out like a fairytale, but we never really come to understand why we pick the lovers we do, or why we react in certain circumstances until a few failed attempts, and we realize it might just be us subconsciously self-sabotaging, because of our limiting beliefs about love and what we do or don’t deserve. It takes time to look within, because it’s difficult to think that something or someone in our childhood could be responsible for our adult dysfunctions and relational behavior.

It’s a cycle of joy and pain, but it definitely teaches us more about who we are, and as we heal, it allows us to be the change that our future generations will benefit from. We’re taught that experience is a good teacher, and I couldn’t agree more, but I also believe that we don’t always have to experience everything first hand.

Terry D.

One thought on “Joy and Pain”

  1. We’ll said

    On Apr 6, 2017 6:05 AM, “IamTerryD BLOG with Relationship Coach, Terry D.” wrote:

    > Terry D. posted: “Our first experience with love starts at a very early > age. It shapes our belief in it, or it makes us question everything about > it. Our thoughts about love are being formed well before we even understand > what true love really is. Our loved ones that mold ” >

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